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When we look at the intractable trouble-spots of the world such as Israel (or Palestine) and Northern Ireland, one feature we generally find is an unwillingness, which may after time have developed into an inability, to see the situation from the perspective of the other side. So, for example, the Israel government appears to have no understanding of the long and painful plight of the Palestinians in their refugee camps for half a century, and the more outspoken "loyalists" in Ulster no sorrow for their oppression over many decades of their Roman Catholic brothers and sisters in Christ.
While one would always wish to oppose the use of violence as a political tool, it is easy to understand how a powerless section of the population can be overwhelmingly tempted to turn to it, and there are many nations where the governments are composed of those who have fought for freedom form the previous rulers. Real peace will only come when there is real justice such that no-one feels the temptation to violence.
This applies in every part of our lives. Individuals as much as nations need to ensure that they are just and generous in their dealings with others, listening and responding in a Christ-like way to those who have claims upon us, and always ready to apologize for past errors. As with nations, fair dealing cannot guarantee that trouble will be kept away, but a failure to be fair can guarantee that trouble will come sooner or later.
Forgive and be forgiven, give and receive and peace will grow in your own life. Peace in the world has to start with the individuals who make up that world: let it start with you!
Four members from the Priory Church attended this year's conference held on 13th October at Lincoln.
We were welcomed by the Archdeacon who outlined the day and introduced the speaker, Dr Margaret Whipp. During the first session Dr Whipp spoke of the heavy responsibility and pressures facing the medical profession as they care for the nation's health. She examined the role of G.P.'s, the duty of good practice, accountability and continuing professional education and development. She also commented on what she saw as a poor approach to the healing ministry - entering hospital wards and offering healing without any accountability. She felt that the Church must be clear about its expectations - what it is asking us to do, whether people are confident in their ministry i.e. well prepared and working as a team. She also felt it should be accountable to a hospital.
After discussing the subject in groups and giving feedback we went across to Holy Cross Church for the Healing Service itself, followed by lunch in the hall.
In the second session Dr Whipp spoke of Care both in the Middle Ages and the Modern World, demonstrating how it has been broken up into secular and spiritual areas. Theological Colleges incorporate little about the healing ministry in their programmes, ministers are faced with learning as they go along. She felt the Healing Ministry should be based on meaning, not 'magic' nor critical , irresponsible spiritual care. Finally, the Church and the Medical profession should work together for the wholeness of the person with the Lord at the centre.
Numbers this year were slightly down which was disappointing . Nevertheless, we benefited from the fellowship of those involved in this ministry from other parts of the diocese.
Bernard Babb.
are holding their Advent Coffee Morning
in the Church Hall 10-00am to 11-30am
Coffee & Mince Pies, usual stalls
Tickets from committee members £1-00.
ALL WELCOME
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Harvest lunch & Auction raised £ 119-60 after expenses. Our thanks to Margaret Flegg and all who helped to make this an enjoyable event. We must not forget Joan Dyke and Ann Bennett and all who helped decorate the church for our Harvest Festival Services. Thank You All.
The Carers Sitter Service is a voluntary service in your local area.
The aim is to provide a Home Sitting Service for the many people whose activities are restricted because of the care and support they provide for their relative or friend. It has the support of the Alzheimers Society, Red Cross, Age Concern, and the local County Council Social Services Departments.
Please note it is just a sitting service and not a nursing service.
Why l Need It? Many carers find that even when practical difficulties have been eased they still face emotional problems. You may feel resentful that your life is so restricted and that everyone assumes you can cope. You may feel guilty that you are not doing enough, or that you are neglecting other members of your family. It's all too easy to become cut off from your friends and give up outside activities.
It is important that you have some time to yourself Regular time off will help you to care better and to ensure things don't reach a crisis point when you feel you can't cope anymore.
Who are the Sitters? The sitters will be caring women and men who like people and understand the problems faced by carers.
How often will the service be available? We hope our sitters will be on call when you need them whether in the daytime, evenings or at weekends. It may be for a couple of hours or a whole day or once a week or once a month -whatever suits you. We want to give you the chance to have some time to yourself
"I don't think my mother would like anyone else to sit with her" Many carers find it difficult for all sorts of reasons to leave their friend or relative with someone else. If you can manage to do it though, it may make all the difference to both of you.
Do get in touch if you would like to find out more about our Service.
How much does the service cost? This is a purely Voluntary Service free to all users. However any donations are gratefully received.
Carers Support Group It often helps to talk to people in the same position as yourself. It's a great relief to know that others feel like you and have similar problems. There is a Carers Support Group in the Stamford, Bourne and Deepings area. For more information contact this office.
I would like to know more about the Carers Sitter Service PLEASE CONTACT THE OFFICE
Co-ordinator
1 St Mary's Hill
Stamford
Lincs.
PE9 2DR
Telephone: 01780 481480
9.3Oam - 12.3Opm on Tuesday and Thursday (answerphone available at other times)
Registered Charity No. 1040408
The Kesteven Blind Society is a registered charity founded in 1920 to provide a range of services to the blind and visually impaired living in the Kesteven area of the County of Lincolnshire, to enable them to lead independent lives.
Mobile Resource Officers are employed throughout the region and give valuable help and assistance to those blind and visually impaired in need. They advise and help with equipment, aids and information which are designed to enhance daily living skills and maintain a good quality of life.
The Society openly supports a number of social groups within the region giving members the opportunity of valued social integration. Other services by the Society include a quarterly newsletter, befriending, computer training, telephone conference calls, training in independent living skills and access to information.
Support is of the utmost importance. Our members can be very lonely and to suffer the loss of one's sight, often quite rapidly, is extremely traumatic. Friendship and a little time can go a long way.
it is estimated that there are around 290,000 people living in the Kesteven area, we have almost 1000 visually impaired people, many of whom are lonely and need someone to help with simple tasks such as correspondence, filling in forms, getting out for a walk, or maybe just someone to have a cup of tea with. Having this help can make such a difference.
We would like to be able to offer more support, but need volunteers to join our befriending scheme, or to help with fund-raising events. There are many elderly blind people who live alone and have little or no family nearby. A volunteer able to give just one or two hours per week can improve someone's life immeasurably.
If you feel that you are one of these people then please contact us to find out more about the needs in your area and opportunities for volunteering.
Basic training is given to all volunteers that will enable them to feel at ease with visually impaired people. More extensive training would be available upon request.
As a volunteer with K.B.S you will have a chance to meet interesting people, make new friends, and know that your time is valuable to someone in need.
if you would like to be a volunteer with K.B.S give some time or share some skills you may have, then please contact Sherry Wilson, Voluntary Services Co-Ordinatior at the Kesteven Blind Society on 01476 592775.
We continue with the veggie theme of last month with this...
Place vegetables and stock in a saucepan. Bring to boil , cover and simmer for 10 minutes. Drain, reserve liquid and make up to 1½pints with milk. Arrange vegetables in a shallow ovenproof dish. Keep warm. Place flour, butter and milk in a saucepan. Heat, stirring, until the sauce boils. Cook for 2 minutes. Remove from heat, season and stir in the cheese. Pour over the vegetables, sprinkle with breadcrumbs and grill until golden.
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